29-07-2016 09:54 PM
29-07-2016 09:54 PM
Byyee @Jacques, so nice to see you.
I'm so happy to hear about @WombatBoots one year aniversary at his job. Can't beleive it's been a year already!
I'm even more delighted to see this reunion unfold on here. It so nice to see how our little community has grown. With some of our older member @Jacques @Appleblossom @PeppiPatty and @Appleblossom @BlueBayand our newer members @Kurra @Bridgetjones @Faith-and-Hope.
I remember when the Forums just started out in the very early days, and it was just @NikNik and I moderating from 5 - 10pm on weekdays. We used to be excited to get one post! Amazing to see such an awesome group of people come together.
Group hug!
29-07-2016 09:56 PM
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29-07-2016 10:10 PM
29-07-2016 10:10 PM
Hi @WombatBoots 😊
@Appleblossom - it was a pastoral care team who helped me sort out my anger issues, free of charge, thank God cos we were not financial at all at the time .... and it was just me, not mediation. Had to get my head on straight before I could go back in and sort 'em all out .....
I'm an empath, and could understand all the miles walked in their shoes - especially having survived war-torn childhoods and losing critical relationships - but comes a point where bad behaviour has to be addressed anyway .... I realised that the war damage would keep rolling forward damaging our kids, and maybe their kids, if the tide didn't get turned .... still copped a brunt of their behaviour ... still do sometimes .... but it's so far reduced on what it was I can now refer to it as "the naughties".
Their own relationships with each other ... well ... ultimately that's their own business ... but most of them are not comfortable or happy.
@Kurra - sounds like you had a pretty good take on managing your own anger from early on ...
Thanks @CherryBomb, can always learn more ... and I am from all you guys 😏
As tough as I might have had it, I am very aware that's not a patch on some of the Titans who walk amongst us, having survived much worse ... and prepared to share their empathy and life-lessons ....
💗💕
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Thanks for replying @Bridgetjones ... I'll give you a quick tip, while you are typing/writing if you use the "@" symbol it should give you a drop down list of the people in the current conversation...2 advantages to this 1. it's quick to reply/mention someone in a post and 2. if they have email notifications, it lets them know they have been mentioned
ok so me
I'm a wombat named matt ... ahh no I'm just a matt that loves wombats 🙂
I'm 45 and "ima newy local" ... translation = born and bred and still lives in newcastle
I love all of your music, as well as many others, grew up on U2, I love Rob Thomas and MB20, pink, same as you though I think we were born at a great time for music 80s etc etc I'm very open and broad.except for the heavy metal shouting stuff (i like to actually hear lyrics).
I'm a teal (not blue not green) favourite colour guy ... I'm not sure if colours mean too much but it is always an interesting question
In a previous post you may have read, I'm very lucky guy to be a very proud single dad of 2 beautiful kids 12g and 10b
and I do love hot food 🙂 mexican, thai etc etc
29-07-2016 10:42 PM
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29-07-2016 11:01 PM
29-07-2016 11:01 PM
Got a bit busy behind the scenes tonight... wasn't able to participate in the Friday Feast as much as I would have liked to.
It was still nice to hang out with you all.
I'm off now, have a lovely weekend.
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